$Many people are blinded with the greatness of successful individuals, because they cannot see the “painful” experience and set back in their life. In fact, the more successful a person is, the more he encounter with failure and defeat. People with such mentality tend to neglect one of the success principles that say “Failure is part of success”.
Success mentality always comes with the ability to absorb downfall and failures in life. When the worst incident strikes us, we need to learn how to go through the process and keep our mind on our mission. We also need to learn how to make decision to continue or to rework the problems using our value system. When we walk through the worst, we will be able to discover many “secret” that further lead us to a more fulfilling life. Sadly to say, this secret is the painful exchange with the downfall that he has encountered but the value behind is tremendous.
Sometimes ago, a friend of mind was asked to solve a business problem at the Customer office during his probation period. After few trips or negotiation, he comes back with “bad news” that he can’t resolve the problem in hand. Due to this failure, he was asked to leave the company before he even completes the probation. Few years later, I got good news from him. He actually gets married with a charming girl that he visited at the Customer office. Well, good things do not always come to us in a straight line. After few years, we start to aware that many of the bad incident in life is actually giving us “goodness”, “wisdom”, “Success” and “satisfaction”. If we don’t have the worst, we would not deserve all the success achievements. This is why many successful people say “Everything happen for a good reason”.
In fact, successful people have the mentality to absorb the worst life process without losing focus. They know that there are no such things as perfect success in this world. In the process, you might make a mistake, say wrong things, rejected by someone or even lost everything in life. These are so call “Black dots” in life is actually a test of the Al Mighty God on your perseverance to go for what you want. If you sustain your effort and keep on working on your mission without losing focus, you will gain “extra ordinary” result in life. You will start to enjoy “wealth” and “popularity” which is not your right at the first place. Just because you have a ability to survive through the journey of torture and misfortune, you rip the rewards from GOD as a special gift.
The hardcore test that happen to those who has mission in life is actually a sign of “greater success”. There is a saying in Chinese, God only give the right of great success to those who has the ability to walk through the test of sincerity.