Many of my friends say, “My income bracket can never touch five figures, I don’t think I can make it”. They use their current standard and past achievement to measure their future success. They don’t believe in something that they never achieved before. As a result, they say “I cannot” “that is not my bawl of rice.” Such scenario is totally against the success principles of great achiever. In order to create a new breakthrough in life, you have to believe in what you are wanting. As the saying goes “To believe and to achieve”.
When your life is surrounded against the doubt, you invite worry to your life. You tend to procrastinate your plan and think that is a waste of time and energy. You also tend to agree with others who have a negative mindset about your plan. You let them amplify your doubt and ultimately destroy your own mission in life.
Lack of self confident is one of the biggest challenges that will shut off the beauty of dreams and fantasy. We tend to think “cannot” even though there is a chance to “get it done”. We also start to bring in “fear of failure” that lead us to count on things that will be lost when we the project fail. You might fear of losing your job, fear of losing your friends, fear of losing your money etc. When FEAR appears real, you will tend to lose the interest to keep on pursuing your dream.
To be an achiever in life, you need to think positively even though there are chances of failure. You must look at the bright side of the story and don’t let the risk jeopardize your thinking. You need to think positively and optimistically that you are going to make it. In this manner, you are going to control the fear of losing and risking. The more you inject positive expectation in your mind, the more confident you will become.
Some good scholars are “knowledgeable” about success but they dare not to venture into “risky action”. They are perfectionist who wants to wait for the best moment to start their mission. They have lot of doubt and fear in their mind and they cannot live up their “self confident” As a result, what ever “skills” and “knowledge” become useless in their life.
To achieve the success that you want, you have to start with self confident and kick off the project that you have in mind. Only than, the professional knowledge and skills that you have secured will start to function.