Having met with many extra ordinary people who make a different in their life and people around them, I found that they have their unique character that lead them to become a special person. When we compare the achiever with those who live a mundane life without any special attainment, we found that they also have many other success resources that enable them to emerge as a winner. They have better education, better social networks, better health etc. My question is “why they deserve to have all these wonderful success resources, while some others toiling hard through life without much success.” The answer is that they have the right mindset and character in life.
Almost all winners start their success journey with little or no success resources. They have no money, no education, no social network etc. With the right mindset and character, they equip themselves with the success resources they want. I met with achiever who is so thrifty just to accumulate his capital to buy a laptop. I met with achiever who sacrifice his recreational time just to get attend the night school. I also met with achiever who spends time to travel all the way to the Toastmasters meeting. With the right mindset and character, they get the resources that are important to their success. In other words, with the right character, you can have anything you want.
I also met with person who has a problematic mindset would are rejected by others and fail to get what he want. Some people say “their luck is bad”, but I like to say “their character is not good.”. When you fail to impress others with your personality, you would not able to get their support. In fact, all achievers have a wonderful personal relationship character that helps them to get what they want in life.
When you met someone who has a good life, achieve extra ordinary result and successful, try to learn about his behavior and character. They are special because they have a set of attitude that differentiates them from others. To be an achiever, work on your mindset and character before you work on your skills and knowledge. When your mindset is right, all what you want will be able to come to you easily.
Throughout my life as an achiever coach, I start to aware that “all people” can be an achiever when they set their character correctly. Start planting achiever spirit in your life and start making a different in your life.
The life will auto pilot to your life to your desired direction easily when your mindset is being set correctly. You become the magnet of success.