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Day dreaming vs Realistic Dream

 

Some people set their goal so high that they want to be a millionaire in few years time. There is no right and wrong issue here. The concern is whether it is practical for you to set such a high goal within such a limited time line if your current port folio and your plan of action does not seems to be in line with what you want. As a result, a lot of people who are highly charged after the motivational seminar are back to “despair” and “frustration”. Motivating yourself to achieve your goals with urgency is actually a good intention. But this intention must be back up with realistic plan (SMART) that drives you to be the person you want to be. .

 

We need to understand ourselves and set a plan that moves us one step at a time towards what we want. A sudden success will come to you because your current scenario merges with the opportunity that comes to you. As the saying goes “Opportunity come to a ready man”.  If you are not ready yet, forcing yourself to believe that miracle can happen in your life is just a “childish” plan.. I have friends who feel so bad after committing himself on a business plan with all his saving, only to realize that he has no experience and knowledge to manage the business. As a result, he lose all his money.

 

Anyhow, I don’t deny that the current internet exposure and Information technology can bring you lot of life breakthrough that people in past take decades to achieve. But again, you still need to ask yourself, are you in control of the whole process. If the success planning is base on external factors and out of your control, we call it “secondary plan”. Put your time and focus on your primary plan that you can take charge.  Example, you hope that your advertisement in the internet will help you to achieve your sales target, why don’t spend your time more on actual sales canvassing.

 

I still remember the time I speak to a good friend about success. He shows me all his great opportunity and he closes his door to other ventures. He knows he will make it big with his fabulous ideas and commitment. He spend all his saving to package himself with luxurious car and elegant office. After few years, he lost everything. He has a good spirit but he has no good planning. Well, you can say “business is always risky”, but a successful businessman know how to reduce the risk of failure and maintain his business proposition even though he is facing “problems” in his venture.

 

Never underestimate your competitor, your health, your family, your financial constraint. Learn to manage your success with balance attention to all the success factors. Or else, your motivation will be trapped by “unforeseen” happening that rip you out from the process. What is the meaning of success if a powerful four wheel drive is trapped in a muddy river and waits for the rescue team to overhaul the whole engine?

 

Success wisdom

Motivation and urgency to achieve success is not everything in the success journey. As an achiever, we must know how to manage our goals in life with SMART planning strategy.  A motivating person can end up be a “nobody” if they doesn’t know what he manage his life with right planning.

“Success without responsibility” is useless

 

One time ago, I met with a woman who has a great desire to set up her own business. After marriage, she was tied up by the family commitment. Even so, she read all the great books on success. She even spends time on learning various skills that contribute towards her business success. When all her children have grown up, she started to set up her business vigorously.

 

The first tastes of profit that come to her enchant her spirit so much. She put in 101% of her time in the business. She only back to her house once while. Most of the time, she would sleep in her office compound. The sad thing is, she spent all her money on business reinvestment and has nothing left for her family. She managed to buy a new car, new machine; but she lost her family. She decided to divorce her husband and think that she is independent enough to handle her own life.

 

When success was colored with pride, ego and selfishness, success becomes meaningless. The first thing we need to ask ourselves, why we want to achieve success? If your answer is to prove your greatness, enjoy luxurious life, and totally forget those that you love.. your children, your spouse, your parents etc, I would suggest that you better keep low profile lifestyle and don’t work so hard. In other words, you are not fit for great success.

In the journey of success, we have to define the meaning of success in our own perspective.

 

Everyone has their own responsibility to fulfill. If you tend to focus on your financial success and totally neglect the needs of those you serve, either financially, emotionally or physically, success is just a problem in your life. You might be looking good from outside, but you are cursed by your love one, your children and your parents. What is the meaning of success if we cannot share the fruits of success with those we love?

 

 

If you want to make success a meaningful venture in your life, always share the fruits of success with those you love. In such manner, your family would not grumble even if you can’t spend time with them. Sadly, some wealthy people spend money and time in the golf club, in the spa, in gambling etc. When you forget about your family, you start to lose everything again. This is why some people lost balancing in life and turn million to zero. They aware that success is a holistic adventure, not “one way ticket”.

 

Wisdom of success

Learn to serve and not just suck everything you earn for your own comfort and wellbeing, Understand that success is a multi-perspective adventure. You can’t judge your success from one perspective only.

The power of Biogenic Model and your dream


Do you have a dream?

Most people will say yes. We want this, we want that..

Some people want to live long and some people want to climb the highest mountain in the world. Some want to accomplish their religious commitment by paying tribute to the  holy land, some want to become millionaire and live happily without financial struggle.

The next question is “When can you make it happen?”

According to the statistic, less than 20% of people who really make their written goals come true. Let us talk about yearly goal. Most people miss their yearly resolution with various excuses:

»       The external challenges is tough and we don’t have the resources yet

»       I don’t have the time yet. Too much problems happen and taking my precious time

Whatever reasons we give, the goal-postponing syndrome (GPS) will start to take place. Instead using the GPS to search and reach our destiny, here we use GPS to delay our project in hand. You can find that 80% of non-performers in any organization are actually finding intellectual excuses rather than saying:

“My attitude is not right

“My commitment is not good’ etc

Some even say, “Its okay for not making it, after all we don’t want to stress ourselves”

Whatever you say, and how we cover our weakness is totally right to you.

Imagine, we lost another year of our life. If this GPS keep happening, the whole life will be in vain and nothing achieved.

Than the sad story of life will covered with another statement “If I have a chance to be youthful, I will do my best”

The fact is, everything is too late now. You just can’t do anything when you are old.

Personally, I consider myself a motivated person. I have accomplished quite a lot of achievement when I was in the school. However, the GPS also strike me and delay some of my multi million project.  I totally feel “exhausted” and have no energy to move on. I do cover the project with various reasons and excuses. Until when I discover the aura amplification from my Biogenic dream CD. I jump from sleeping model and move on with “full power”

Yes, your mental inertia needs to be stimulated to action. Shouting and yelling in the motivation is not a true remedy. Goal writing and affirmation is also not a complete solution. Many people who delay their goals in life, not because they are ignorant and stubborn.

They can be a hardworking person, a good person; but why their dreams still sleeping

Biogenic Model gives you the solution. The reason is simple; your core desire has not been activated. In other words, your personal aspiration is still in sleeping mode.

Biogenic Model  gives you a key to activate your personal core desire. With this supreme desire, you will do whatever you want to accomplish without any excuses. If you don’t know how to do it, you will surely find the way. If you face obstacles, you will overcome it. If you fail, you will restart again. In other words, you become unstoppable in your mission.