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孩子的竞争力是成功的基石

为了帮助孩子在社会上占有一席, 我们需要了解孩子竞争力的重要。 每一年, 数以万计的孩子进入工作岗位。

每个父母都希望自己的孩子有美好的前途。 可惜的是, 只有少数的孩子能够平步青云, 获得杰出的表现, 荣光耀祖, 受人仰望。通过多年的考察, 我们发现到这些杰出的孩子 , 并不一定有良好的教育水平, 那么, 什么才是孩子竞争能力的基本功呢?

很多爱子心切的父母, 购买了无数的激励书本给孩子阅读, 也带孩子参加各种激励课程; 最终发现到, 孩子还是回归现状, 没有明确的改变和成长. 问题出在哪里呢?

其实 , 成功学不只是一套学术课程. 单单了解课程的内容或一时的感触或感受是不足够的. 孩子们需要把成功学的原则变成生活中的习惯, 让他们很自然的活出成功系统的精华. 换句话说, 成功学需要孩子掌握态度的形成, 好让他们能够只我建模, 建造自己想往的成功历程. 这段自我磨练过程包含态度的培养, 目标的设立, 定期的追踪和协调. 当孩子已经掌握整套的成功学的态度培养模式, 他就是生命的主人翁, 在有生之年自我培育梦想, 把人生点缀的轰轰烈烈. 那就是说, 孩子将有能力主导自己的成功, 好让成功学活在在生命中的每一天. 而再也不需要依靠成功学老师的领导了。

在带领成功学的这段日子中, 我发现到有一些孩子不把成功学的功课做好, 也不认真的根从老师的指示。这也是为什么间隔追踪的培养成功态度是何等的重要。

因为每个孩子都不同, 有些孩子能够在半年到一年内把成功态度的建模过程完完全全的活出来, 不过也有些孩子需要更长的时间。不管时间长短, 成功学老师将会坚持到底, 把成功原则稳稳的种在孩子的心田。 在这段成功态度建模的过程中,首先- 孩子需要掌握“目标计划”的态度。 当孩子已经能够把目标计划变成生命的原动力, 他将能自我安排和完成有形目标(学业, 运动) 和 无形目标 (修养, 态度和个性)的成长过程。 因为这样, 目标计划学是成功学的首要课程, 也是人生改造的基本功。 一些很不急待要孩子改变的父母, 在孩子还没有把基本功做好, 就急着的要看到孩子有所成就, 这会让课程失去原有的动力, 而使到成功学系统失去它原有的效力。一个人是否能够成功学的精华不是孩子现在作出多少的行为或成绩的改变, 而是孩子是否能够把所要的行为和成绩改变成为态度成长中的一部分; 通过习惯的培养, 把自我成长变成一种超强的内在生命力。

很多强势性的激励课程, 都会在短期内推动孩子完成一些责任和改变, 让父母感到开心。可是这些偶然的改变, 如果没有配合到成功学的习惯培养过程, 很快的; 孩子将会回归原状。 接下去, 孩子如果没有再受到外在的提醒或督促, 他们将失去成长的原动力。 话说过来, 孩子如果已经掌握了“目标计划学” 的成功原则, 他们将能够自己安排生命改变的每一个步骤, 不需要任何课程或激励教师来提醒他们了。

成功学的基本功是为了帮助孩子能够自动自发为自己打造生命的梦想。 有了这套成功系统,其他的激励课程或激励书本只是一种附加补助。其实, 成功学系统让 孩子做自己生命的主人,安排及建造属于自己的成功价值观。 百珍力成功学是一套完美的成功宝典, 它包含成功原则和态度建模系统。 当父母 把成功学种子播在孩子的生命中, 它将陪着你的孩子不停的成长, 让孩子能够在五六十年的生命打滚过程中, 稳如泰山的表现出成功的创举。 更重要的是, 它也帮组孩子度过各种生命的考验, 在人生的风浪中脱颖而出. 父母再也不必为孩子操心了。

关心孩子的父母, 我们可以带孩子享受人生, 到旅游胜地观光, 不过 – 不要忘记也让孩子有机会进入自己的内心, 探讨成功态度的威力。 我们欢迎您加入”百珍力” 成功阵容, 给孩子一个成功的机会。 谢谢 尤富璋, 百珍力成功学老师

Success Motivation : why some people don’t like motivation

To be successful, we need to have motivation. Many motivator put motivation as the first requisite of success. I do agree that “motivation’ is the first power that drives a person towards action.  But without a clear picture of what you really want in life, motivation can be just liken to a stormy wind which does not yield any positive results. Many of my friends comment that they are leaving the motivation seminar with great excitement BUT just don’t know how to make it happen. In fact, they need to equip themselves with “planning” and “goal setting” before they go for motivation seminar.

In Biogenic Coaching, personal mission and personal planning are the first two requisites of success before we inject motivation to their life. By knowing your Core desire, you will be able to charter your motivation with “focus energy”. You won’t just get excited for nothing. You develop a clear mental picture of your dreams which you blend them motivation power.

Success motivation is the process of linking your mission with personal power. This process also called “productive motivation”. You don’t want to be positive for nothing, you want to get result and achieve what you want. I discover the system of personal excellent called 3M Model (Mission, Management, and Motivation) which become the fundamental of all success formula.

First : Mission blueprint

Practice the mental video and rejuvenate your life with supreme desire using mental simulation technique

Second : Managing your plan of action

Manage and execute the goal setting with full attention to the SMART principles

Third : Motivation empowerment

Develop personal motivation with positive expectation, commitment and discipline.

 

Clear enough, motivation is the supporting criteria for your mission and planning, it is NOT EVERYTHING in success journey. Without a mission and constructive planning, motivation is not going to give you any benefit.  Most people put motivation as the first criteria and end up with “no practical successes in their life.  Beware of the “empty motivation” which sound great but “useless’. Due to this factor, many people has a negative mindset about motivation; they think that motivation is just a waste of time because it can’t generate the result they want.

 

Success principles

When you have a success motivation which encompass your true mission blueprint and planning strategies, you will be able to live up the motivation power in a constructive manner.

 

Great Success – Team Work

No body can become great by himself alone. If we want to be filthy rich, we must have a team to leverage our time. If you want to be world champion, you must have dominant support team. If you want to be a great artist, you also need someone to watch your performance and generate income for you. Whatever your success, you cannot run away from team work. In other words,, you need people to support your success.

I have met with people who grow from nobody become somebody. He has been greatly influenced by his life model before he moved out from his comfort zone. He also learned from few master who share the secret of success in his chosen field.  With the strong team work , his team generate a wholesome income every month when he is going for holiday. I also met with great achiever who chooses to be a lone ranger. He pick up everything by himself and he does not believe in team work. With the limited time resources and personal energy, he can only achieve limited performance compare to those who believe in team power.

You can have 100% ownership of your wisdom and income, but you can only earn five figures a month. On the other hand, those who share their wisdom with others and help others to earn good income will be able to achieve six figure incomes per month. The philosophy of thinking big is starting with giving spirit. The more you give your time and effort, the more it will come to you.

When you work as a team, you share your rewards with your team member. You do not take 100% of the profit like the sole proprietor. When everyone is happy with your giving heart, more people will come to you and start working with you. This is the success factor of networking and franchising.

Learn to work for great success and don’t tied yourself with one man show. Start building your international community and support them with benefit. Give , give , give and the world will start giving you what you deserved.

 

Success principles

Learn to create great success and not small success. Believe in the power of team and share your resources with them. Lead them to the top of the mountain and surely you will be there too.

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