“Success without responsibility” is useless

 

One time ago, I met with a woman who has a great desire to set up her own business. After marriage, she was tied up by the family commitment. Even so, she read all the great books on success. She even spends time on learning various skills that contribute towards her business success. When all her children have grown up, she started to set up her business vigorously.

 

The first tastes of profit that come to her enchant her spirit so much. She put in 101% of her time in the business. She only back to her house once while. Most of the time, she would sleep in her office compound. The sad thing is, she spent all her money on business reinvestment and has nothing left for her family. She managed to buy a new car, new machine; but she lost her family. She decided to divorce her husband and think that she is independent enough to handle her own life.

 

When success was colored with pride, ego and selfishness, success becomes meaningless. The first thing we need to ask ourselves, why we want to achieve success? If your answer is to prove your greatness, enjoy luxurious life, and totally forget those that you love.. your children, your spouse, your parents etc, I would suggest that you better keep low profile lifestyle and don’t work so hard. In other words, you are not fit for great success.

In the journey of success, we have to define the meaning of success in our own perspective.

 

Everyone has their own responsibility to fulfill. If you tend to focus on your financial success and totally neglect the needs of those you serve, either financially, emotionally or physically, success is just a problem in your life. You might be looking good from outside, but you are cursed by your love one, your children and your parents. What is the meaning of success if we cannot share the fruits of success with those we love?

 

 

If you want to make success a meaningful venture in your life, always share the fruits of success with those you love. In such manner, your family would not grumble even if you can’t spend time with them. Sadly, some wealthy people spend money and time in the golf club, in the spa, in gambling etc. When you forget about your family, you start to lose everything again. This is why some people lost balancing in life and turn million to zero. They aware that success is a holistic adventure, not “one way ticket”.

 

Wisdom of success

Learn to serve and not just suck everything you earn for your own comfort and wellbeing, Understand that success is a multi-perspective adventure. You can’t judge your success from one perspective only.

How to define success in you

The definition of success can go on and on.

Many people see success from different perspectives. Even all the people around you think that you are successful, having branded car, elegant house and excellent lifestyle; you still have to ask yourself; is this all what you want? Do you have anything else that means more than physical possession? Do you feel happy and satisfy?

I met with one of my friends who have successfully changed his “broken lifestyle” to be “extraordinary wealthy”. He has a childhood dream of having a luxurious car. The day he bought and drove his brand new Mercedes, he told me that “I don’t feel excited at all” Well; driving a new car gives him comfort and pride, but is this real success? I am not against people having brand new car, in fact, I too have the same vision. The question is “Are we feel the value and satisfaction of the whole process?”

There are people who attain success through unscrupulous actions. They might become the king in their undertaking, but they might not be able to enjoy their career with passion. There are also people use unethical ways to win a business deal and sweep others under the carpet. These are greedy people who don’t deserve real success in life. They might be looking good outside, but the inner heart is full of rubbish. They play dirty games to get what they want. They just think about themselves and they don’t care about the victims who lost everything in life.

But don’t get me wrong. I am not intended to offend anyone here. I just wish to say that “characters” are the foundation of your happiness. When you have a right mental set up, you will handle your friends, your family and your life with great approach. There are people who boost his success so much that they forget about the meaning of humble. There are also people who were so successful that they forget about social responsibility. Some so call rich people are tight up with heavy commitment on various luxurious items and do not have any extra money for their parents.

 

Learning Point

I strongly suggest that all youngsters have to back up their life with right characters before they march into their respective career dream. Learn to reprogram your inner soul using various personal development tools. Learn to refill your inner heart with abundance of love and care. When your thoughts are right, you start to do right things, and you will surely feel satisfaction in all your endeavors.

The power of Biogenic Model and your dream


Do you have a dream?

Most people will say yes. We want this, we want that..

Some people want to live long and some people want to climb the highest mountain in the world. Some want to accomplish their religious commitment by paying tribute to the  holy land, some want to become millionaire and live happily without financial struggle.

The next question is “When can you make it happen?”

According to the statistic, less than 20% of people who really make their written goals come true. Let us talk about yearly goal. Most people miss their yearly resolution with various excuses:

»       The external challenges is tough and we don’t have the resources yet

»       I don’t have the time yet. Too much problems happen and taking my precious time

Whatever reasons we give, the goal-postponing syndrome (GPS) will start to take place. Instead using the GPS to search and reach our destiny, here we use GPS to delay our project in hand. You can find that 80% of non-performers in any organization are actually finding intellectual excuses rather than saying:

“My attitude is not right

“My commitment is not good’ etc

Some even say, “Its okay for not making it, after all we don’t want to stress ourselves”

Whatever you say, and how we cover our weakness is totally right to you.

Imagine, we lost another year of our life. If this GPS keep happening, the whole life will be in vain and nothing achieved.

Than the sad story of life will covered with another statement “If I have a chance to be youthful, I will do my best”

The fact is, everything is too late now. You just can’t do anything when you are old.

Personally, I consider myself a motivated person. I have accomplished quite a lot of achievement when I was in the school. However, the GPS also strike me and delay some of my multi million project.  I totally feel “exhausted” and have no energy to move on. I do cover the project with various reasons and excuses. Until when I discover the aura amplification from my Biogenic dream CD. I jump from sleeping model and move on with “full power”

Yes, your mental inertia needs to be stimulated to action. Shouting and yelling in the motivation is not a true remedy. Goal writing and affirmation is also not a complete solution. Many people who delay their goals in life, not because they are ignorant and stubborn.

They can be a hardworking person, a good person; but why their dreams still sleeping

Biogenic Model gives you the solution. The reason is simple; your core desire has not been activated. In other words, your personal aspiration is still in sleeping mode.

Biogenic Model  gives you a key to activate your personal core desire. With this supreme desire, you will do whatever you want to accomplish without any excuses. If you don’t know how to do it, you will surely find the way. If you face obstacles, you will overcome it. If you fail, you will restart again. In other words, you become unstoppable in your mission.