态度(ATTITUDE) 建模的重要

有句谚语说“我们可以把马带到河边, 不过我们不能逼它喝水。”同样的, 我们可以把孩子送到最好的补习班, 不过我们不能保证他会用心学习。由此可见, 心态决定一个人的成败。 当心态不正, 任何的智能, 技术和 知识 都发挥不了作用。很多父母都会把教育放在第一, 而忽略了心态的重要。

我曾经和一位补习老师谈谈教学之道。 他说, 凡是来我这里补习的学生都是成绩很差的学生。可是, 过了几个月, 他们都名列前茅, 得到父母的赞扬。这不是因为我有一流的老师, 也不是因为我的教材比人家不同。 特别的是, 我们的老师会用上一半的时间, 解析心态的重要。让学生回家后, 更加奋发图强, 考到好成绩。由此可见, 心态的确是一个人成败的王牌。 有了正确的心态, 一个人虽然在恶劣的情况下, 还是一样创造出生命的奇迹。我对那些穷苦的孩子有很深的感触。 他们虽然没有钱参与补习课程, 也没有钱买书- 不过他们自爱。 他们能够向朋友借书, 也在没有电流的夜晚, 用蜡烛的光读书。 这段心酸的奋斗史, 表露出他们的成功态度。也证明孩子不一定要有一流的老师或一流的环境,才能创造出一流的人才。只要态度好, 我们每个人都能够在任何环境中脱颖而出, 成为胜利者。

陪孩子不一定要花很多时间

三言两语的提醒 REMINDER

只要能够进入孩子的心

胜过你讲了又讲

 

一两个身教动作 EXAMPLE

能够帮到孩子建立品格

胜过你训导孩子一个小时

 

一句简单的问候 GREETING

帮助建立孩子的亲子关系

胜过你请他吃大餐

 

一个关键的疑问QUESTION

让孩子想想自己的过错

胜过你要他上激励课程

 

一个有素质的沟通 COMMUNICATION

让孩子重建好品格态度

胜过你送他成功书本

 

父母们。。。

让我们一起来

掌握15个家教沟通法

在百忙之中

抽出“几分钟” 时间

通过有效的家教沟通模式

让孩子有机会成长突破

 

尤富璋老师

百珍力书房

 

 

My Project : Principles and Practice of Psycho Cybernetics in Biogenic Model

Psycho Cybernetics is a constructive method of life transformation which aims at removing the basic cause of personal setback through the rational use of the mental faculty that available in every one of us. It is not only a system on success and achievement, but also a way of life, in tune with the internal habitual forces on personal achievement, which further resolve the myth of fate and life destiny. It is indeed a complete revolution in the art and science of living.

 

Although the term ‘lifeology’ is of relatively recent origin, the philosophical basis and several of the methods of life management are ancient. Lifeology studies the life force of all people successful or unsuccessful in there lives to learn about the personal life of humankind. It was practiced in ancient Egypt, Greece and Rome.

 

Aristotle, the father of life orientation and forces ( 384-322 B.C.) strongly advocated it by saying We are what we repeated do, excellence is not just an act, but a habit.

 

Secret,  a well-known publication on personal success reveal the ultimate truth of the same principle that govern our life either we believe it or not.

 

Dr Maxwell Maltz, a profound psychologist and face lift surgeon was making his life testimonial in his book  “Psycho Cybernetics” . He reveals the goal achievement mechanism base on the same success principle and he later names it as “Success Mechanism”.

 

Through the in-depth study on his finding, we will understand the power of life habit that governs our life destiny. The power of life habit is not a fix deal which people call fate, but it can be further programmed through a process of conscious effort. Such process of life transformation is indeed an unique ability which is gifted from God that make us an unique being in this universe.

 

As we all know, every creature has been endowed with a special strength that symbolizes an identity of talent, bird can fly and fish can swim. How about human? The ultimate power of human identity is the ability to live up the principles of Psycho Cybernetics.

 

The question is how much we explore and live up this supreme power of life force will determine the level of success and satisfaction in this world.

 

Upon the true revelation of Psycho Cybernetics, we will be able to attain the highest level of human satisfaction which is named as “self actualization” by Abraham Maslow in his theory on hierarchy of needs.

 

The power of Biogenic Success System applies the Psycho Cybernetics principles of success and achievement. Knowing it is not enough, but living up the principles is the only way to uncover the supreme power of life force that drives us towards the exploration of our innate potential.

 

You are welcome to know more about Biogenic success system. For sure, it will drive you towards greater attainment. Call 016-8785338 for more information.