Category Archives: Meaning of success

How to define success in you

The definition of success can go on and on.

Many people see success from different perspectives. Even all the people around you think that you are successful, having branded car, elegant house and excellent lifestyle; you still have to ask yourself; is this all what you want? Do you have anything else that means more than physical possession? Do you feel happy and satisfy?

I met with one of my friends who have successfully changed his “broken lifestyle” to be “extraordinary wealthy”. He has a childhood dream of having a luxurious car. The day he bought and drove his brand new Mercedes, he told me that “I don’t feel excited at all” Well; driving a new car gives him comfort and pride, but is this real success? I am not against people having brand new car, in fact, I too have the same vision. The question is “Are we feel the value and satisfaction of the whole process?”

There are people who attain success through unscrupulous actions. They might become the king in their undertaking, but they might not be able to enjoy their career with passion. There are also people use unethical ways to win a business deal and sweep others under the carpet. These are greedy people who don’t deserve real success in life. They might be looking good outside, but the inner heart is full of rubbish. They play dirty games to get what they want. They just think about themselves and they don’t care about the victims who lost everything in life.

But don’t get me wrong. I am not intended to offend anyone here. I just wish to say that “characters” are the foundation of your happiness. When you have a right mental set up, you will handle your friends, your family and your life with great approach. There are people who boost his success so much that they forget about the meaning of humble. There are also people who were so successful that they forget about social responsibility. Some so call rich people are tight up with heavy commitment on various luxurious items and do not have any extra money for their parents.

 

Learning Point

I strongly suggest that all youngsters have to back up their life with right characters before they march into their respective career dream. Learn to reprogram your inner soul using various personal development tools. Learn to refill your inner heart with abundance of love and care. When your thoughts are right, you start to do right things, and you will surely feel satisfaction in all your endeavors.

The power of Biogenic Model and your dream


Do you have a dream?

Most people will say yes. We want this, we want that..

Some people want to live long and some people want to climb the highest mountain in the world. Some want to accomplish their religious commitment by paying tribute to the  holy land, some want to become millionaire and live happily without financial struggle.

The next question is “When can you make it happen?”

According to the statistic, less than 20% of people who really make their written goals come true. Let us talk about yearly goal. Most people miss their yearly resolution with various excuses:

»       The external challenges is tough and we don’t have the resources yet

»       I don’t have the time yet. Too much problems happen and taking my precious time

Whatever reasons we give, the goal-postponing syndrome (GPS) will start to take place. Instead using the GPS to search and reach our destiny, here we use GPS to delay our project in hand. You can find that 80% of non-performers in any organization are actually finding intellectual excuses rather than saying:

“My attitude is not right

“My commitment is not good’ etc

Some even say, “Its okay for not making it, after all we don’t want to stress ourselves”

Whatever you say, and how we cover our weakness is totally right to you.

Imagine, we lost another year of our life. If this GPS keep happening, the whole life will be in vain and nothing achieved.

Than the sad story of life will covered with another statement “If I have a chance to be youthful, I will do my best”

The fact is, everything is too late now. You just can’t do anything when you are old.

Personally, I consider myself a motivated person. I have accomplished quite a lot of achievement when I was in the school. However, the GPS also strike me and delay some of my multi million project.  I totally feel “exhausted” and have no energy to move on. I do cover the project with various reasons and excuses. Until when I discover the aura amplification from my Biogenic dream CD. I jump from sleeping model and move on with “full power”

Yes, your mental inertia needs to be stimulated to action. Shouting and yelling in the motivation is not a true remedy. Goal writing and affirmation is also not a complete solution. Many people who delay their goals in life, not because they are ignorant and stubborn.

They can be a hardworking person, a good person; but why their dreams still sleeping

Biogenic Model gives you the solution. The reason is simple; your core desire has not been activated. In other words, your personal aspiration is still in sleeping mode.

Biogenic Model  gives you a key to activate your personal core desire. With this supreme desire, you will do whatever you want to accomplish without any excuses. If you don’t know how to do it, you will surely find the way. If you face obstacles, you will overcome it. If you fail, you will restart again. In other words, you become unstoppable in your mission.

 

 

Success philosophy is easy, but not easy to live up

When I started to share the success principles to my friends since 1992, many people give their feedback that success is so easy. They even told me that they don’t need to learn from me.

“Your sharing is so basic.”

After so many years, I found that all the “high fliers” in life believe in the basic. Success is actually a very simple life philosophy encompass daily planning, vision development, value judgement  etc . Yet, why these simple success principles only “germinated” into great achievement on few people, whiles others who know about it just can’t reap what they want?

 

The study of human success is always a topic that triggers my reflection on my personal life. It is almost my “life searching mission” to know “why some people who apply success principles and get nothing out of it”

 

I discover that most of the students who join my seminar do not really change much, even though they said they learn something from me. They are good students, they follow instruction and they enjoy my seminar. I found that, it is not so much of what you know, but how you use what you know that matter.

 

After so many years in training and seminar industrial, I started to feel that I need to do something more than just “seminar”. This bring me to a new mission in life, to set up a new trend of “personal coaching” base on inner transformation. In my mission, practicality  of what you learn is more important than “what you have learned”. Students need to transform every principle towards his success using day to day “action tools”. This drive me to work out a series of coaching system using Biogenic Model.

 

Many books talk and share about success principles. Yes, they tell us how to apply the process but they don’t personalize the process to different student base on their needs and inner block. The knowledge stay at the “know how” with out true application for different folks. As a result, they still feel unable to grasp the true message of the application. Example is everything. We need to come out with a role play for each process and clearly put it down in writing. This is the most crucial part of succession coaching that most coaches just don’t do it. They feel that the students should work out their own process. The role play become “unprofessional” and “unpractical” in nature.

 

What I just mention is indeed a missing link in today “learning environment”. Too much of knowledge base on know how, but not much of guidance in the true process. I still remember A GREAT TRAINER explain all the selling skills and strategies with profound know how. But when it comes to the role play, he let others do it and just comment on it. He personally not even dare to steps in to take the challenges of role play, afraid that he might be commented by participants. The sad thing is, students want the real stuff. They even want the trainer to step to the sales field and demonstrate what has been taught. Yes, manages and leaders today is too complacent with just commenting and criticizing the team without really step into the process and feel the challenges.

It is time for us to stand up and change the whole learning process. We want “result base” learning, not just knowledge and theories.

 

Learning point

You can become a great learner when you are able to transform the knowledge you’re your personal masterpiece through customizing the success principles with your life values and mission.